
I had said earlier on Saturday that this would be one of the best family reunions weāve had in a long time and boy, was I right? I drove separate since my parents and Katie and Matt had their own stuff to take care of pre-reunion. It gave me the opportunity to stop and get a Pumpkin Chai from GetGo in New Stanton. I also got to take the scenic route into Laurel Hill, driving through Mount Pleasant and Donegal and up the mountain. I was blessed with seeing the changing colors and greeted by the cooler temperatures in the Laurel Highlands. I passed Kooser en route to Laurel Hill. After about ten minutes of driving, I found the lakeside pavilion. I arrived at 1:30 and made my rounds talking to family before we heard the bell and got our food.
The spread consisted of great picnic food including pasta salad, Macān Cheese, pulled pork, chili, and Chick Fil A nuggets. We sat around, laughed, and told stories of family members who have since passed away. Thereās always laughs we when we get together. It was great to see some of our family like Uncle Skip and his kids who made it down from State College; Andrea (my momās cousin) and Rick whom we havenāt seen in forever; Jason and Shannon, whom I never got the chance to talk to because I was busy elsewhere. Aunt Lorie was there with her bean dip and I made the promise to visit the Coach outlet and find what she wanted.

All of us gathered inside and sang Happy Birthday to Uncle Bob. I think he was pleasantly surprised. We had cake and many pies to choose from. We took home the Dutch Apple pie Elizabeth brought up from Winchester and I took home my pumpkin roll left intact because Annie brought one of her own.

The best part of the food was the charcuterie and boy we went to town on that. I ate my share of cheeses from the #boujeeboard.
I was greeted by my youngest cousin Olivia and she complimented me on my fashion sense including my nails š and my lavender scrunchie (boy Iāve really rocked those things lately). My family has really gotten behind me with my gender nonconformity. I even showed off my new Coach purses to my cousins and they were impressed. That pink one got a lot of attention at work this week as did my pink scrunchie. I might have even gave Olivia a little bit of inspiration. Next up is the pink cherry dress š (just kidding or am I serious š ) or a pink flowy blouse (maybe; Iāll look like Xo from Jane the Virgin).
But social media is not real life. What is keeping me from looking ahead and why do I look back? Iām used to feeling alone (I left a birthday party in tears in 2012 because of the Obama bashing); Iām used to rejection and hearing no all the time; and in the past when someone made fun of me or shamed me for carrying a crossbody I just gave it up. In the past it was no more, but now itās not anymore.
Iām enjoying this year of going against the status quo but itās not always easy for me. Iām thankful for those who have had my back and encouraged me to do me and be me. It also helps that Iām stronger now than I was in the past. Iād have never been able to pull this off a few years ago because others would have made me feel so discouraged that I would just close up shop.
Back to the reunion. The kids all got together and ran around. Annabelle was so happy to see Patrick and Pappy took them on a walk during our reunion. Lucas was decked out in his Cleveland Browns jersey and had his football with him. Andrew threw him the ball from atop the deck. Henry was just having fun being a three year old. We stuck around until it got dark and then we had to go home. Iām glad we were able to all get together regardless of the weather after so much time apart due to COVID.
Neither rain nor snow nor sleet kept us from having a great Gaffron Family Reunion. After the grief I got last month for my gender nonconformity, Iāve never loved my family more.







































