Yes those are infinity scarves on my wall. I’m rocking the leopard scarf right now and I feel very confident. I didn’t have this confidence before but this year has been good to me, if you can believe that. I’ve begun to follow small businesses on social media and have recently started visiting them in person. That’s been a big boost to me.
In the past, I felt insecure because I assumed the worst (at home and in the workplace). I worried about people’s opinions because I was different. I feared being shamed because I carry a bag and because of how I dress and what I like (Gilmore Girls and my pink water bottle)
However, I’ve learned to be someone who makes me happy. I’ve ditched the insecurity and let go of the past and, you know what, nobody cares about any of those things. I’m building new traditions with the Fall Symposium and shopping local. Some of my newest friends have come through attending the night market and supporting my local everything. Of course, I still have my Toastmasters family too.
I’ve slowly been letting go of my past. I’m beginning to build friendships with the local business owners and learning to support my local everything. I’m also done worrying about what people think of me and have gained confidence as a result of it.
I attended the Greensburg night market in August and started building my friend base. It set the table for the next week when I would attend the Masterspieces grand opening in Latrobe.
I was excited to support a local business. I made some memorable purchases, including a book about Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood. I learned to be me and do me. I’ve learned not to be with someone who makes me happy, but to be someone who does just that.
Who cares if someone doesn’t like your outfit or your T-shirt? Why do you worry that your bag makes them feel uncomfortable? What does it achieve if you let them win? If you like it, that’s all what matters. Your haters are your motivators.
Yesterday I made my small business rounds. I started in Greensburg and visited with Team Trendy. We had a little Hempfield Spartan connection going yesterday as one of the customers walked in. It was nice that the store had some sales yesterday and Lacey and Jen gave them a great experience. I shared the encouraging comment I got on my blog with them and then went on my way. Both Alisha and Juliet made my week but so did Lacey and Jen when I visited yesterday. I made the most of my visit as always.
My day was complete. I think I got around pretty well. Ligonier was packed (which is good considering no Fort Ligonier days this year). I made stops at the Holiday Home Store and then Second Chapter Books and the sweet shop. I made my cookie purchases at Masterspieces and picked up some good Harry Potter merch along with a tote. Masterspieces did phenomenal business last night and Courtney didn’t have too much left from the haul. I look forward to my next visit and enjoy the stories. I promise to give more businesses shoutouts in the future too.
Overall I’m blessed. I’m growing my friend base within the community. I’m still full from the Spirit of Toastmasters award. I’ve found my voice and feel very confident.
Live your best life. Be your best you. Be a ray of sunshine 🌞 every day. You may change someone’s life.
Have a great weekend (some of you have a three day weekend). Bye everyone. ❤️ you.
Stylish 🍒 