Today’s shopping trip to Tanger outlets was like a three course meal.
I started with the appetizer, Bath and Body Works. They had a great deal on their new tropical 🌴 line. But two get one free (or buy 3 get 3 free). I bought some hand lotions. I have one for every weekday now. I also got little hand sanitizers 5 for $8. Plus, little seashell 🐚 holders for them. Maybe I’ll give one to a friend.
Next up was the main course, Old Navy. I bought two pairs of joggers, a moisture wicking ballcap, and a T-shirt. I was able to get $20 off with my Old Navy Super Cash.
But here’s what you were dying to see. This is my ticket in for next time I meet up with Sara and Rob, along with a season of Jane the Virgin. I’m also going to put together a nice outfit.
The dessert (bananas foster) was the best part of the day. I made my way to Coach in lieu of a sweet bag. I not only bought a wallet, and a crossbody, but also a tote. I had my eye on this bag for months and I finally got it today.
Can’t wait to tote this bag around downtown Greensburg as well as Ligonier. Maybe it’s time to let this blog live up to its name. More fashion and travel (got the Disney trip coming in September; maybe a blog on all the parks we’re visiting).
In closing, it was a red letter day. I was full 😋 after this meal.
Is this how feel when you attend a Toastmasters meeting?
Another great area contest took place on my 2021 District 13 Area Contest tour.
The Area 13 International Speech and Table Topics contest was held virtually last night. I attended the contest last year when it was held at the Cranberry Township Municipal Building.
Tom Nylec of Westinghouse won the International Speech contest with his speech “Travel to the NOW”. In it he talked about meditation and how focusing on the present helped him get through the pandemic. Linde Riley of Cranberry High Noon Toastmasters won the Table Topics portion of the contest.
I really loved the Table Topics question. How has Toastmasters helped you connect with others? For contestants Linde Geissler Riley and Adie Kurtanich I thought this was too close to call because they both answered this question well. Cranberry High Noon Toastmasters was well represented tonight.
Linde dreaded speaking in front of groups. When she moved back to Pittsburgh, she took the opportunity to join Toastmasters. It has helped her to become a better communicator. This year , Linde serves as Vice President Education of Cranberry High Noon Toastmasters. For Adie, her teaching experience was helped by her involvement in Toastmasters. It has also helped in her work in the legal field. Both contestants have seen their confidence grow as a result of their involvement in Toastmsters. Adie is a dual member of Cranberry High Noon and Cranberry Area Toastmasters. Currently, she serves as President of Cranberry Area Toastmasters.
Both Tom Nylec and Linde Riley will advance to the divisional round in March. The Division B International Speech and Table Topics contest will be held on March 21.
Our District trio was in attendance as well as our Division Directors. All gave their praise for the contest, which was well-run, and they plugged their upcoming speech contests in March. I will be attending all four division contests.
The Area contest tour for me continues Saturday with Area 22 and then Wednesday and Thursday evening with dual contests (Area 2/33 and Area 11/14).
My answer to this question will be on Facebook and Instagram.
Last year after I got my new TV as a Christmas present, and we got the Roku hooked up, I began to look for shows to start binging on Netflix and Hulu. Surprisingly I decided on Gilmore Girls. I grew to love the series and even took in the Year in the Life revival. That was a little more disappointing, but overall the series that I spent my twenties hating on wasn’t so bad after all.
Fast forward to December. I hadn’t found a series to binge since my beloved Gilmore Girls was done last summer. I took a hint from Chase this past fall to watch Sister, Sister (a classic from the 90s) but it was sporadic for the most part. But I’ve started season two. It’s down on my list but there’s other shows I’m getting to.
While eating dinner in Ligonier with my good friend Sara (I’m like family to her and her mom and big sis) and getting to meet her husband Rob, we discussed our favorite shows. Of course you know I call Ligonier my little Stars Hollow. Sara told me I need to check out Jane the Virgin, and Rob suggested Gossip Girl. I told them I’d think about it.
Over coffee a few weekends ago, Sara and I chatted about fashion, Coach (the handbag not the iconic sitcom), and TV shows. She finally got me on to Jane the Virgin and also, I started watching Gossip Girl (Rob’s favorite show as well as a few other friends’ fav). I have to say I love them both, but I’m not going to pick a true winner because I enjoy both of their company.
I know. Straight out of a telenovela, right.
You know you love me. XOXO. Gossip Girl.
I can’t believe Kristen Bell is the narrator. She’s definitely a favorite of mine, which leads me to…
The Good Place. My sister got me hooked on this a few years back. The characters do this show justice. Ted Danson is awesome in this show as is Kristen Bell. I get some good laughs watching this and I’m on the final season right now.
Sister, Sister is a blast from the past. I grew up with it in the 90s. Jackee Harry is a hoot as the mom and Tim Reid as the dad (you may remember his best work as Venus Flytrap from WKRP in Cincinnati). You can find Tia and Tamera Mowry these days in Hallmark movies. Best line ever from that show, “GO HOME ROGER!” to the annoying neighbor kid.
I plan to start The Good Witch soon. This was a suggestion from fellow Cranberry High Noon toastmaster Linde Riley.
Catherine Bell of JAG fame is in that one. I look forward to checking it out on Netflix.
My top five right now: The Good Place, Jane the Virgin, Gossip Girl, Sister Sister, and The Good Witch.
I could go into detail on Jane the Virgin and Gossip Girl but do you have a whole day to read what I’d say about those shows? Future blog for when I review seasons on each of these.
My season fell short last year due to COVID-19, ending at the area level. I had been looking forward to the Division contests, and they ended up being cancelled due to the pandemic. Same with the Spring conference. Pretty soon, all Toastmaster clubs would have to meet virtually.
We held our Fall Symposium online in September. I attended the awards ceremony that morning and heard my name being called for the Spirit of Toastmasters award. I was ecstatic, to say the least. A few months later at the Winter Club Officer Training, the three of us who won the award took part in a panel discussion to answer questions related to Toastmasters (membership, education, etc.)
Two years ago, quitting Giant Eagle was the right thing for me. It wasn’t going to work out, and that was OK with me. It meant I could keep my flexible schedule and take off for the upcoming speech contests. I attended all four division contests and the District conference. I had the time of my life. I was motivated to finish what I started and get my Distinguished Toastmaster award.
I finally got it in October of 2019 and we had the ceremony during our open house that same night. I even got a proclamation from Ted Kopas and got to meet Jessica Rafferty. Both unsuccessfully ran for office in Westmoreland County in the 2019 election.
Having the meetings via zoom provides a benefit if its own. An opportunity to attend speech contests from the comfort of my own home. I’ve been stepping out of my comfort zone and attending contests in other divisions. Area 13 Director Fred Vornbrock has even suggested that I visit clubs in other states or overseas. That’s going to eventually come for me.
My contest tour got kicked off on February 4 when I attended the Area 15 contest and it continued that weekend with Area 12 and my own Area 24. I’ve been reporting on the contests for Stylish and Trendy. I’ve also taken the winning speech and applied the material to my daily life. The table topics questions have all been awesome and I’ve used them for my blogs too. I just watched Aladdin Saturday night because Jim Teague won the Area 24 Table Topics contest with it. I’m still not sure what the answer to the question would be for me. Perhaps a Disney quiz will help me here.
My future plans this month include my District Leadership Committee work as well as some upcoming area contests. Area 13 is this Wednesday. I attended that contest last year and hoped that I’d see the winners compete in March at the Division level, but we know what happened there. Area 22 will be this Saturday and that will be the last contest that will decides who competes at the Division C contest. I plan on attending some dual area contests next week and possibly a couple in Division D the first week of March before we start the Division round on March 13.
This year is already setting a records. Most area contests attended in my Toastmasters career. Happy almost tenth Toastmasters anniversary. One thing’s for certain, I’m really enjoying myself with these contests even if it’s on a virtual platform.
We heard three great speeches at the Area 4 Contest. Topics ranged from Rick Hays’ speech about his life and family (his Dad was a lawyer for U.S. Steel) to Jack Burt’s speech on how he found “A New View” on a certain class of people.
Viba Ranganathan of the Pittsburgh Toastmasters 144 gave the best speech, “Good Excuse”. In her speech, Viba talked about how fear is the biggest thing keeping us from doing what we want to do. For me, I struggle with fear more than anything.
My friend Sara and her mother Paula have given me the confidence to be me. I don’t need to apologize for me being me anymore. Sara has instilled in me “to be proud of being unapologetically ME” and to not be embarrassed of my fashion sense. If no one agrees with me, I’m grateful that the girls have accepted me for being myself. I’m so blessed that they have also adopted me (unofficially) into their family.
Maybe that’s why I enjoyed Jack’s speech as well. He was able to gain a new understanding of how people who are gay live their lives. Over the years, he has really come to accept the lifestyle. It’s prevalent in his family as well. Both Jack and Viba’s speeches tied into the contest winning that North Hills member Dawn Fratto gave last Saturday at the Area 12 contest.
🙌Congratulations to South Hills President, Area 4 Director, and Speech Contest Chair Dominic Gray for conducting a wonderful Speech Contest Event. It was a fun speech showdown between Pittsburgh Toastmasters and South Hills Toastmasters!
This was a great team effort! Thank you to the members, volunteers, contestants, and guests!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. I had a great time at the ending chatting with Marci and Dominic, and introducing myself to Area 2 Director Julia Wick of Moon Toastmasters.
Corliss and Jack will advance to the Division Awesome Table Topics contest on March 14. Jack and Viba will advance to the Division Awesome International Speech contest held on the same day. Here’s a photo of our contestants. All of them did a great job today.
I’m looking into attending Area 2’s contest on February 24. It will be a joint contest with Area 33 in Division D.
It’s been a great early start to contest season and there’s more to come.
Today at the Area 4 Table Topics and International Speech contest, the question was a really good one appropriate for the contest.
What Color Best Represents You?
Our contestants answered the question and all have great responses.
Rick Hays answered the question saying he was a mix of Blue and Orange. Even though life could be stressful at times, he’s usually cool and tranquil (calm, cool, and collected). More of the blue there.
Jack Burt chose yellow. In his speaking roles this morning, he had a bright disposition and was very happy. Yellow is the color of sunshine 🌞(which we’re missing a lot of right now) and Jack is certainly a ray of sunshine. I really enjoyed his speech this morning as he gained “A New View” on something. It’s something I’m thinking about a good bit 🏳️🌈 on too.
Corliss Gunn-Ray chose Green. It’s a color not too loud, not too soft, just right (like Baby Bear’s porridge 🥣). Green is the color of Spring, the color of money 💰, and the color of my Alma mater (Slippery Rock University). But it’s also calming.
I’m going to answer this question two ways. Yellow represents me (just as it does Jack) because I’m always bringing cheer, warmth, and optimism to everyone around me (even though they may not always accept it). I’m a ray of sunshine in a world that is full of dark clouds.
My other color is one I’m really proud of and this is pink. I wore it last week on my coffee date. It’s the color of a cute sundress 🍒 perfect for summer. It’s the color of my water bottle. It’s a pastel type of color and one I love 💗 a lot. Pink represents people who are caring, emotional, and sympathetic. I exhibit a lot of these traits.
As my friend told me last week, Be Unapologetically YOU. I’ll add to that, don’t be embarrassed because the world will adjust.
Fashion is nothing to be ashamed of. Have a great weekend. ❤️ you.
Third area contest in four days. Some great feedback from yesterday from my favorite people. A much needed coffee date in my little Stars Hollow with my little sis/fashion buddy. I call that a perfect weekend.
Let’s begin with the ending in mind. Today’s Area 24 contest was another great event. It was more of a Table Topics contest with five contestants. The question was a great one, especially if you loved Disney. All the answers were very diverse from Beast to Nemo to Cinderella and Genie and even Dumbo 🐘. Not sure how to answer one. I hope to have an answer by midweek.
The winner was the one who chose Aladdin and Genie because, let’s face it, he’s a comic genius, likes to have fun, and will grant you all the wishes. Congratulations Jim Teague and Dana Mitnik and best of luck as you move onto the Division C International Speech and Table Topics contest.
Denise Pullen’s speech taught us that the best company to have is a dog. This speech made me think of my friends who are dog owners. Paula Mason and her shorkie (Shitzu-Yorkie mix) and the girls from Adventure à la Mode (Erin and Ashley) and their dogs (Stella and Charlie Girl). Also, can’t forget my cousin Liz Gaffron and her Marnie.
The Mighty Thor ⚡️. My wonderful friend Paula Mason is his owner. Thor is a Shitzu-Yorkie mix.
Yesterday’s Area 12 Speech contest was awesome, but it was the who that had me #EmbracingJoy.
I planned a trip to my little Stars Hollow (Ligonier) for coffee at Abigail’s Coffeehouse this afternoon with my fashion buddy/little sis Sara Newsom. It was more about catching up.
I like to carry accessories with me and wear my clothes a little different. She and her mother Paula Mason have adopted me into their family and let me feel comfortable to be myself. We waxed fashion sense during our visit. I showed her the Coach bag I’m eyeing up as well as a cute cherry print sundress perfect for summer. Of course my scarf stole the show.
I’ll be hooking up again with Sara and her husband Rob in March at their place for dinner. But to get in, I need to watch Jane the Virgin (I’m going to watch a full season) and I have to buy my Coach bag. I’m going to download HBO Max to watch Gossip Girl. Both shows are Sara and Rob’s favorites.
Three things I’m doing before my dinner date with Rob and Sara. Watching Jane the Virgin and Gossip Girl, picking out a nice outfit, and buying this sweet Coach bag that I’ve had my eye on for a while.
Check out my blog from yesterday (Don’t Fear What Other People Think of You) for more on yesterday’s amazing speech contest.
I’ll close off this blog with a quote from my fashion buddy Sara Newsom. “Fashion is nothing to be ashamed of”, and “Be proud of being unapologetically YOU”. I always have a great time with her and Rob and can’t wait until March.
She and mother make my day with the encouraging words they give me. They’ve adopted me into their family and for that, I’m grateful.
All in all, a perfect weekend. All because of the company I keep.
This morning’s International Speech contest taught me a lot.
Some people have a secret.
Some have a fear of missing out.
We can find inspiration anywhere.
We need to have empathy.
We can feel empty despite doing everything right.
Finally, we need to be SMART, especially when it comes to firearms.
I’m so glad I was not a judge in this morning’s contest, but rather an attendee.
Today’s area contest brought all the feels. A great Table Topics contest was the perfect way to kick today’s festivities. The question was “What trait was reinforced during 2020”. Perspective, Priorities, and Patience were the answers. I wrote a blog this morning about the trait reinforced in me during 2020.
Chad Hudson served as our contest chair and Linda Young was chief judge. They put together a great team that helped this contest run smoothly. Beginning this blog with the end in mind, Chad asked for feedback from the District Trio, a few of our Division Directors, and past dignitaries (including me). We talked about how great the event was, how great the speeches were, and some of the answers to today’s table topic question.
The speech topics ranged from social issues (transgender people and gun safety) to life during the pandemic, and living your life for others instead of yourself. Every speech was amazing and not a bad one in the bunch. Not a dry eye either. The last one really got to me. People need to pay attention to the dangers of firearms. The acronym Joe Schmitt used was very informative. As gun owners, we need be SMART for our children.
Dawn Fratto’s speech ended up winning first place. What I picked up from the award winning speech was that we’re always trying to fit in. Despite all she had to endure, she began to rise from the ashes (like a phoenix). Despite living a successful adult life, she felt empty despite doing everything right.
We have a fear of what other people think. We worry that we are not going to be accepted unless we fit a certain mold. Here’s my personal story.
I was having coffee in Ligonier with my friend Sara this afternoon, and one of the things we talked about was fashion. I like to carry accessories with me and wear my clothes a little different. She and her mother have adopted me into their family and let me feel comfortable to be myself. It hasn’t been easy as I speculate on how my family might react, especially my parents.
Sara calls me her big brother, and also her fashion buddy. I’m also starting to introduce her to some of my blogger friends. One of these days, I’ll even introduce her to Team Trendy (she went to high school with Emily Parker).
My fashion buddy and I at Christmastime in little Stars Hollow. Sara, Rob, and I will meet up again in March.
We are all different. Don’t ever tell yourself you’re not good enough. Celebrate where you belong. It’s high time I drop the “married to my job” and “married to Toastmasters” tags and other labels that people have bestowed upon me.
All in all, the speeches were great and hard to judge. I’m glad I didn’t judge this contest. It opened my eyes, put things into perspective, helped me to prioritize, find inspiration anywhere, and made me cry 😭.
Big thank you to Chad Hudson, Linda Young, Jing Humphreys, Stephanie Scott, Patti Thor, Bob Johnson, John Sinclair, and all who attended to make this contest a success. Plenty more to come in this season.
Good morning. I had attended the Area 12 International Speech and Table Topics contest this morning. The table topics question asked of the contestants this morning was “What personality trait of yours was reinforced during 2020?”
To answer that question, I would say loyalty is the trait that for me was taken into perspective in 2020. Three areas where loyalty was most prevalent in 2020 were:
Family and Friends— They were healthy for the most part with only a few quarantines around Christmas. We all did our part and were in this together.
Community—I began to invest myself in Greensburg, and started to follow small businesses on Instagram, as well as other bloggers. I’ve gained some good friends in the process.
Occupation—We had a two month layoff and returned to work in May. We remained steady for the most part even as we shut down other non essential businesses around Christmas. However, I’ve also begun to realize self-care is just important as staying busy.
Pathways is an exciting, flexible and interactive way to develop your skills and help others in your club develop theirs. It will help you learn communication and leadership skills that you need to succeed. It gives you:
The opportunity to build up to 300 unique competencies
11 specialized learning paths to choose from
Online content, so that you can learn anytime, anywhere
Real-world, transferable skills
Here are the 11 paths that you can choose from:
We have an incentive in Toastmasters for all of our members.
On October 22, 2020, Toastmasters International sent out an email to members that included its appreciation to you in the form of a free path.
Any Toastmaster who renewed their membership for the October renewal period by December 31 will have automatically received a free Pathways path! To redeem your free path, visit your Toastmasters profile, click the “Choose A Path” button, and follow the normal path selection process. You must redeem your free path before March 31, 2021. This is a great way to motivate members to get going in the paths and help their clubs achieve their educational goals. This will have an impact on whether or not clubs will be eligible for the Distinguished Club program.
Once the path has been selected, members may take as long as they want to work toward their personal objectives. Don’t wait! You are investing in yourself.
Pathways has worked for our members in District 13. They have worked up through the ranks to complete their paths. Some of our members have taken well to the new education program.
Shanda Kelsch is a member of the Elk County Toastmasters club. She placed second in the area 21 speech contest last February. If not for the pandemic, I feel she could have gone all the way to District with her speech. Recently, she completed her Level 4 in the Visionary Communication Path.
The Visionary Path was created to help build skills as a strategic communicator to launch a long-term personal or professional vision. The projects on this path focus on developing skills for sharing information with a team, planning communications and creating innovative solutions to problems while building skills in speech writing and delivery.
“While Levels 1 and 2 helped me understand myself better as a leader and a communicator, levels 3 and 4 have helped me to develop those skills further,” says Kelsch, current President of Elk County Toastmasters. “Level 3 taught me how to connect with people, inspire a team and how to network but Level 4 brought my education up to a whole new level by teaching me how to more effectively use online media, public relations strategies and managing projects with a team. It has been an interesting experience.”
Shanda will continue her education on the Visionary Communication Path over the next few weeks gaining knowledge in High Performance and Ethical Leadership and Leading in her own Volunteer Organization.
“My education with Toastmasters won’t end once I have completed my last few assignments. I plan to continue my education by enrolling in the Strategic Relationships Path so that I can further hone my skills as a leader in interpersonal and business communication and in running and building businesses and other organizations.”
Elk County Toastmasters meets at 6:30pm on the first and third Thursdays of each month online and in-person at St. Boniface School in Kersey.
Great work, Shanda, and keep working hard in your Toastmasters journey and in your other endeavors.
In the Presentation Mastery path, Cranberry High Noon President Tina Kramer has learned to moderate a panel discussion. That’s exactly what she did at December’s Toastmaster Leadership Training. Along with her team, Tina showed us tips and tricks on “How to Make Our Online Meetings Rock!”
Division B Director and Earlybirds member Jing Humphries is working in her third path, Strategic Relationships. She, along with Virda Perry, Terye Carney, and Tina, put their skills to the test for the breakout session on online meetings at TLI and both club officer training makeups.
For me, I’m just starting in my path. Right now, I’m in the dynamic leadership path. I’m told one of the paths includes writing a blog which I’m what I’m doing now. Over the last few years, I’ve taken it upon me to be more inspirational and I’ve done that with my #EmbracingJoy posts on Facebook. I’m also more passionate about my community and embracing my style. We’ll see where my paths take me. Even though I have my two paths, could I possibly take advantage of a free path by March 31?
That concludes this Pathways blog. For some, it’s a fresh start. For others, they may have mixed feelings. It all depends on how you go about it and how you can adapt to change. If you’re a longtime toastmaster, raised on the traditional education, you may have some growing pains and opinions on the new program. If you’re just getting started you may see how fun the new package is and teach a thing to our veterans.
Stylish 🍒 